Toasting Speech Should Be Keep Short

Dear Dr. Dave and Dr. Dee,

I will be giving a toast at my brother's wedding. Is it appropriate to write down the toast and to read it at the reception? Also, what should I say? I am not really thrilled about the woman he is marrying.

Signed,

Nervous Novice

Dear Nervous,

It's best to write down the toast beforehand, but memorize it for the reception. The toast should be short, about 3 sentences. Be sure and make the toast sincere, nice, and upbeat. One common sentence used in wedding toasts is, "To John and Jane for a lifetime of love and happiness".